Opening Prayer: Lord Jesus, thank you that you are far more interested in awakening us than you are in shaming us. Awaken us now to your unfailing love and deep affection, so that we might be captured by your beauty and forever changed by your passion.
Scripture: John 4:16-18
Journal: What are your “husbands?” What are the things, or who are the people, that distract you from depending on the love of the Father? How are you depending on people for love that only God can give?
Reflection: “The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have aid is quite true.” (John 4:18)
Contrary to popular opinion,
Jesus is not trying to shame, but to awaken.
Awakening, however, is not a tidy process. In fact, it can be pretty messy. For in order to truly awaken someone, they
must first be made aware of how they have been lulled to sleep. Their needy patterns and strategies must be
exposed, recognized, and acknowledged before true awakening can take place.
But who in their right mind wants
to be exposed? Only someone who realizes
deep inside that their lives have taken a terribly wrong turn. Only someone who yearns for and longs for and
hopes for a life that’s better than the one they are living. Only someone who is longing to experience a
love that is deeper and wider and longer and higher than any love they have yet
to experience.
That’s where we have to
trust the heart of Jesus, that his intent is love and never shame. That he alone can love us with the depth and
the passion and the intimacy we most deeply long for. That when he exposes us it is with the utmost
gentleness and kindness and compassion, for it is his invitation to name what
is wrong within us and return to what is good and true.
The heart of Jesus is to
expose and awaken, to name and invite.
Because, ultimately, he doesn’t want us to settle for less than the life
and the love he created us for. He
doesn’t want us to live at the mercy of others.
He doesn’t want us to be dependent on the attention and affection of
those around us, when it is only he who can give us the attention and affection
we most deeply need. Helping us to
realize that and helping us to stop being the attention and affection whores
that we are, is what spiritual awakening is really all about. It certainly was for the woman at the well.
Pray
Closing Prayer: Forgive me, Lord Jesus, when I try to fill my soul with lesser loves. For only your Greater Love will truly satisfy. Help me to turn away from the broken wells I run to and come only to you, the spring of living water.
